PT 1
Last week, I chose to step away from the computer in favor of board games, less as a response to the assignment and moreso thanks to my wonderful partner, who has told me that they want to become "the board game guy" this year.
As it turns out, shutting off devices becomes a lot easier when it involves spending quality time with the person you love. We've been playing games together every night, laughing and enjoying one another's company for hours at a time.
I am someone who is rarely without my phone, and there was a period of time where my screentime metrics were showing an average of 8 hours a day. It's easy to assume I'm dependent on technology, but I think the truth is more complex than that. My phone is where my friends are. Many of them live in different states, some in different countries, and my entire social life feels reliant on the internet. The aforementioned 8 hours (sometimes more)? Those were the metrics from before I moved to New York, when my partner and I were long-distance. That was halved when I moved here, and now, spending more time with them than ever, it's been halved again.
Something I have also noticed is that there is a big difference between mindless consumption online and active engagement. Scrolling endlessly on social media can feel like a black hole, eating time and wasting a day. But that's not all there is! One day last week, when my partner had plans, I logged on to a remastered version of Toontown, a game from my childhood. That day, I met a stranger who had progressed further than me in the game and dedicated the rest of their evening to playing with me and helping me complete quests. We chatted and played together for hours, never knowing each other's names or any personal details, and I felt so fulfilled by the experience. The time flew by, but I also felt engaged for every second of it.
In essence, what I've found is this: technology can be soul-sucking, but the reason it is able to get its claws in us is because we live in a lonely world. Leaving tech behind is impossible in the present day, there's no denying that, but engaging with technology mindfully may be the key to making the most of our time with it.
PT 2
For my artistic representation of this experiment, I've created a d
igital drawing that aims to capture the feelings these experiences evoked in me. It is meant to be warm, inviting, and playful, yet simple in design.